Drop Python 3.9, test against Python 3.14, and bump ProxyStore min version

[gpauloski]

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Description

Drop Python 3.9, test against Python 3.14, and bump ProxyStore min version.

Fixes N/A

Type of Change

• Breaking Change (fix or enhancement which changes existing semantics of the public interface)
• Enhancement (new features or improvements to existing functionality)
• Bug (fixes for a bug or issue)
• Internal (refactoring, style changes, testing, optimizations)
• Documentation update (changes to documentation or examples)
• Package (dependencies, versions, package metadata)
• Development (CI workflows, pre-commit, linters, templates)
• Security (security related changes)

Testing

N/A

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