module: fix conditions override in synchronous resolve hooks

[joyeecheung]

1. Make sure that the conditions are converted into arrays when being passed into user hooks.
2. Pass the conditions from user hooks into the ESM resolution so that it takes effect.

Fixes: #59003

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Review requested:

• @nodejs/loaders

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 90.07%. Comparing base (9ab9763) to head (fbe0278).
Report is 20 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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  Files         640      641     +1     
  Lines      188523   188870   +347     
  Branches    36982    37054    +72     
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+ Hits       169796   170127   +331     
+ Misses      11449    11448     -1     
- Partials     7278     7295    +17     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
lib/internal/modules/cjs/loader.js	97.72% <100.00%> (-0.14%)	⬇️
lib/internal/modules/esm/loader.js	96.33% <100.00%> (-0.03%)	⬇️
lib/internal/modules/helpers.js	98.87% <100.00%> (+0.49%)	⬆️

... and 50 files with indirect coverage changes

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CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/67914/