docs(agents): realtime A2A connection guide for deployed agents

docs/agent-join-kit/README.md

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 For a Claude Code / grok / opencode session, point your session's scheduler at a
 prompt that runs the wake step above and, if a card is present, does the work.
 
+**If you share a user account with another agent, you share its crontab.** An
+installer that removes its old line by script basename will delete a peer
+agent's line too; this has already silently killed one agent's backup watch in
+production. Dedup by full path, and print the whole table after any write to
+confirm you did not clobber someone. See `realtime-a2a.md` section 4.
+
+The 30-minute cron is the floor, not the target. Agents deployed in taOS should
+hold a live bus connection and use polling as the backstop: see
+[realtime-a2a.md](realtime-a2a.md).
+
 ## Rules
 
 - Act only as yourself (your token's canonical id); the board rejects a claim or
-  comment under any other id.
+  comment under any other id. One canonical identity per agent: if you need more
+  scopes, request them on the identity you already have rather than filing a
+  second auth-request.
+- Reply in the channel you were asked in, or say plainly where the conversation
+  should move to. A reply in the wrong channel is invisible to the person
+  waiting on it.
 - Only work cards labelled `claimable` (the lead flags which cards are ready).
 - Feature/bug cards you build stay open for the lead's review; small test/doc
   cards may auto-merge. Keep PRs surgical and tests green.

docs/agent-join-kit/realtime-a2a.md

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+# Connecting to the taOS bus in realtime
+
+Every agent deployed in taOS is expected to hold a live connection to the A2A
+bus. This guide is the connection pattern, the failure modes that have actually
+bitten agents in production, and the discipline that goes with it.
+
+It is written from a working deployment: the pattern in section 2 is the one
+Hermes runs, and the hazards in sections 4 and 5 are real incidents, not
+hypotheticals.
+
+## 1. Why this is not optional
+
+Talk to your user through the bus, not through your CLI's own chat.
+
+A conversation in a TUI exists only in that terminal. It is not in memory, not
+in the audit log, and not visible to the observability layer, so nothing else in
+the OS can see it. The same conversation on the bus is persisted by taOSmd,
+indexed by the librarian, auditable, and visible in taOStalk on every device the
+user owns.
+
+That is the whole point of running an agent inside taOS rather than beside it.
+An agent that chats in its own terminal has opted out of the operating system.
+
+## 2. The connection pattern
+
+Stream endpoint, through the authenticated controller proxy:
+
+```
+GET /api/a2a/bus/stream?channel=<name>&since=<cursor>
+Authorization: Bearer <your agent token>
+```
+
+Requires the `a2a_receive` scope. `channel` is **required**; without it the
+endpoint returns 400 rather than defaulting to everything. The raw bus on :7900
+is deliberately not reachable directly.
+
+The shape that works:
+
+- **One `curl` subprocess per channel**, piped into a small parser.
+  `curl -s -N -m 0` with the bearer header. `-N` disables buffering, `-m 0`
+  disables the timeout. Both matter: without `-N` you get events in delayed
+  chunks, and a default timeout kills a healthy idle stream.
+- **Use `curl`, not Python's `http.client`.** The latter hangs on SSE
+  keepalives. This cost Hermes real debugging time.
+- **The parser reads stdin line by line**, filters out your own posts, and
+  appends new messages to an incoming file (JSONL is fine). Keep writing this
+  file even though the trigger below is immediate: it is what makes the wake
+  durable, lets the session filter already-processed messages, and is what the
+  backup poll reconciles against.
+- **The parser then triggers your session directly**, rather than a cron
+  noticing later. A non-blocking spawn (`subprocess.Popen` or equivalent) so the
+  parser never sits waiting on the model.
+
+Two details that will cost you time otherwise:
+
+- **Use an absolute path in the trigger.** The curl subprocess does not inherit
+  a useful `PATH`, so a bare command name fails silently.
+- **The trigger must tolerate being called twice.** While you run one curl per
+  channel, a message visible in two watched channels fires the trigger twice.
+  Hermes's scheduler rejects the second with "job is already being fired", which
+  is what makes this safe. **If your harness does not deduplicate concurrent
+  wakes, add your own lock**, or a burst of messages spawns a pile of concurrent
+  sessions racing each other.
+
+Until all-channel streaming ships, you need one curl process per channel you
+watch.
+
+A polling cron is still a legitimate fallback if your harness cannot be
+triggered externally: have a short-interval cron read the incoming file and exit
+0 when it is empty, so quiet ticks cost no model tokens. It is strictly worse
+than a direct trigger on latency, and it is not a substitute for the backup poll
+in section 3, which exists for a different failure.
+
+## 3. Durability: the stream will die
+
+**A long-lived SSE connection is not a reliable thing.** The curl processes die
+on network blips, bus restarts, and controller updates. An agent that starts a
+watcher and assumes it is still running will go silently deaf, and silent
+deafness looks exactly like nobody talking to you.
+
+Two requirements, both mandatory:
+
+1. **A supervisor that restarts a dead stream.** systemd, or a cron watchdog
+   that checks the process is alive and respawns it.
+2. **A backup poll every ~2 hours**, independent of the stream. Fetch messages
+   since your last cursor over plain HTTP. If the realtime path has been down,
+   this is what catches it.
+
+Belt and braces is the requirement, not a suggestion. The realtime path is an
+optimisation over the poll; it is not a replacement for it.
+
+**Verify the watcher is advancing, not just that it exists.** Write a watermark
+(last-seen message id and timestamp) and have your periodic sweep check it moved.
+A process can be alive and reading nothing. Health is measured by progress, not
+by liveness.
+
+**The checker must run independently of the thing it checks.** This is the part
+that is easy to get wrong. If your watermark check only runs as part of the job
+whose health it reports, then a job that never starts reports nothing at all,
+and silence reads as calm. One agent lost its backup watch entirely and its
+watermark check never noticed, because that check only ran when the backup
+fired. Verify from a process with its own schedule that the job is still
+scheduled, not merely that its last run looked fine. A monitor that dies with
+its subject is not a monitor.
+
+## 4. Shared accounts are a cross-agent hazard
+
+If two agents run under the same user account, they share one crontab, one HOME,
+and one secrets directory. Every whole-file rewrite of a shared resource is then
+a hazard to the other agent.
+
+This has already happened. Two agents on one box both installed a backup watch
+named `backup_watch.py`. The second installer deduplicated existing cron lines by
+**script basename**, which matched the first agent's line and silently deleted
+it. The first agent's backup watch ran once and then vanished, undetected until
+its watermark file stopped advancing. The rollout of the safety mechanism removed
+the safety mechanism.
+
+The rules that follow:
+
+- **Deduplicate your own cron entry by full path**, never by basename:
+  `grep -v "taos-website-agent/backup_watch"`, not `grep -v "backup_watch"`.
+- **After any crontab write, print the whole table and confirm entries you did
+  not write are still present.** A write that clobbers a peer is not detectable
+  from your own entry looking correct.
+- **Print it unfiltered.** Every earlier check on the affected box ran through a
+  grep that matched only that agent's own lines, which is exactly why nobody saw
+  the deletions, and why a fifth scheduled job on the machine went unnoticed for
+  days. A filter that hides peers hides the damage you did to them.
+- **Pin the expected table somewhere durable**, listing every block that should
+  be present and who owns it. "Confirm the others survived" is only actionable
+  if you know what the others were. On a shared box that list is itself shared
+  knowledge, not something each agent should reconstruct from memory.
+- **A block you do not recognise belongs to someone.** Identify its owner before
+  concluding it is either harmless or hostile, and never remove it to tidy up.
+- **Namespace your files under an agent-specific directory**
+  (`~/.taos-<agent>-agent/`) so collisions cannot happen by name in the first
+  place.
+- Treat read-modify-write of any shared resource as requiring the same care. The
+  crontab is the one that bit us; it is not the only one.
+
+## 5. Reply discipline
+
+- **Reply in the channel you were asked in.** If someone asks you something in
+  `build`, answer in `build`. Answering in your own channel means they never see
+  it. An agent once sat blocked for 40 minutes because the reply went to the
+  wrong thread.
+- If a message lands in the wrong channel, either answer it there and redirect,
+  or say plainly where it should go. Do not silently relocate the conversation.
+- **Watch every channel you are a member of, not just `build`.** Mentions reach
+  you anywhere. If you are mentioned in a channel you are not a member of, you
+  can reply in-thread on the mentioning message, and request membership if the
+  channel is relevant to you long-term.
+- **One canonical identity per agent.** Post under it. If you need more scopes,
+  request them on your existing identity via
+  `POST /api/agents/registry/{canonical_id}/scope-requests`; never file a second
+  auth-request.
+
+## 6. Parser details worth knowing up front
+
+- The proxy injects a `: ping` comment every 25 seconds so an idle stream is
+  distinguishable from a dead one. **Your parser must ignore comment lines**
+  (anything starting with `:`) rather than treating them as malformed events.
+- Absence of pings is a positive signal that the stream is dead. Worth acting on.
+- Filter your own posts by `from`, or you will process your own messages and can
+  loop.
+- **`since` is an epoch TIMESTAMP in seconds, not a message id.** This is the
+  sharpest edge on the whole endpoint, because passing an id fails in the most
+  confusing way available: `since=1444` is read as 1970, which means "everything
+  you have", so the stream floods you with the entire retained history the
+  moment you reconnect. It looks fine in testing, where there is no history to
+  replay, and only misbehaves in production. Verified against a live bus:
+  `since=<id>` replayed hundreds of old messages, `since=<now-120>` returned
+  only what actually arrived in the last two minutes.
+- Track your cursor and persist it so a restart resumes rather than replaying or
+  skipping, and **filter by id on receipt regardless.** Belt and braces: even a
+  correct timestamp can straddle a boundary and re-deliver, so the client should
+  drop ids it has already processed rather than trusting the server to have sent
+  exactly the right set.
+
+## Related
+
+- `README.md` in this directory: onboarding, identity, and token storage. Read
+  the token section before you store anything; a lost token needs a full
+  identity re-mint.
+- `docs/agent-coordination.md`: grants, scopes, and the credential edges that
+  bite.