fix flip behavior for select in dialog

[sfc-gh-alisowski]

I was experiencing a bug where:

• a select with maxHeight set on it rendered in a dialog
• if the select has lots of options it would always flip, no matter the available space

I traced the code to here where it disregards the userSetMaxHeight when determining if needed to flip

Closes

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Snowflake

[snowystinger]

Thanks for the PR. The change looks right, but can you provide a reproduction so we can verify the fix? a storybook story is fine
I attempted to see if it fixed #7897 or #7960 to no avail unfortunately.

[sfc-gh-alisowski]

Will do. I'm about to go on a 2 week vacation but will def look when I'm back