Smarter handling for `patch:` dependencies

[dobesv]

When I have a dependency like:

    "i18next-phrase-in-context-editor-post-processor": "patch:i18next-phrase-in-context-editor-post-processor@1.3.0#./patches/i18next-phrase-in-context-editor-post-processor+1.3.0.patch",

I can't have multiple dependencies on that package in different workspaces as the path to the patch could be different. I suppose in this case the tool needs to resolve the path to the patch and verify that the absolute paths are equal instead of doing a simple string comparison.